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I have no idea why you think it was a bad time to post this. I also want you to know this is not a disturbance. I do not understand why you think it is a disturbance, or a bad thing to post. I really hope you understand now any frustration I expressed above was in regards to the initial lack of details regarding this post.
For example: I'm about to clean house and ban several people from the server that I did not know where playing here - people with the name Hitler - and I'm frustrated that this is the first time I'm hearing about recent players using this name. I'm NOT disturbed and I am NOT bothered that I have to deal with an issue or work with the server files or logs -- it is ALWAYS okay to report poor behavior on our servers!!
"I did this, but HE did that - I got in trouble, but HE did not!" .... just gonna say this once: You are all not part of every warning or action or "talking to" that every other member receives. You also don't get to read every report I get from people other than you. If I spoke with Melon about that incident after receiving private reports, you all would not be informed of such reports or any actions I took. If you think I could even devote my own brain to remember such an event, you are mistaken - I deal with examples such as this as they come, and then I move on. When I receive a private report about someone and have to talk to them, I do not mention specific details FROM the report, such as the name of the person/people reporting or any details that would reveal such information whenever possible or appropriate. In this way, I hope that I am acting with the utmost professionalism and respect for all of you.
Many of you know what I am talking about because it's very possible that people reading this thread (at least 3 for sure) have been talked to BY ME regarding something they need to improve, and NONE of you even know about who/when/why because I treat you all with respect and give you all the chance to improve your behaviors or attitudes during your time here. I CERTAINLY DO NOT make these matters public, especially when they involve a PR Admin, VG Clan Member, Server Manager or fellow Head Administrator.
Furthermore, remember: It's not always what you say, but how you say it. Attitude is everything. If you act out, police yourself: don't to it again - cool off, and come back and don't do it again! Everyone gets upset sometimes, let's all do our best to keep those events as rare as they can be. It's not like "Melon gets a pass" -- YOU ALL GET A PASS! If you keep up, if you can't improve, like I said: you sign your own ban. Most everyone I've talked to after events that come to my attention has always chosen to improve and to do better.
edit: I like to think I do a good job here, but I am always open to constructive criticism. Some people may wonder what it is that I do here, and this is it. Sometimes instead of playing games or chatting with friends, or working with the servers on the back end, I have to de-escalate high level matters directed at the upper management of this Clan, and ensure that people move forward appropriately, otherwise I have to ask them to leave (which doesn't necessarily involve a ban in every case). I deliberate with the other Administrators here as appropriate, and we form a consensus when applicable at times. This is my role.
I love what BLuDKLoT and the others have built here so much that I would do anything to help it persist, including making the hard calls when necessary. Some of them got more busy, I have more time - so it defaulted to me to act as "OIC" when necessary. Just FYI.
So, here's an example of where I'd like to express myself by ridiculing your statement in a humorous fashion (but in a friendly way), except that I feel I cannot do so because it will be lost in translation. I might sound like a dick, when I only wanted to make you and I laugh at something you wrote. Understand my general point using this example that when words are taken out of context, they can be incorrectly judged. In those cases, it's important that we all get more information, ask others what THEY though was meant by a person before taking action against that person.
So, I will sanitize my words so they translate better: I have no idea what you are saying with this quoted statement. Please try again.
...but I'd rather just quote an Adam Sandler movie to be funny: "What you’ve just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this thread is now dumber for reading it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."
If a player deserves a kick, they get a kick. Again, we always give every player the benefit of the doubt, but we can only compromise so much. We have rules - they are posted - we have routes to get unbanned.
Now, I'm gonna go ban every player that has the word Hitler in their name who has played on this server recently. I'm surprised, again, that this thread is the first I've heard of this. Those keywords were helpful, but if you see any specific trend forming, let us know and we can scan the logs for names with those keywords. Thanks for the reports!