The idea behind this is people dont turn around and say "Oh Your a compleat idiot, what are you doing? This is compleatly stupid and you cant lead." They should respectfully comment on there idea not compleatly obliterate yours, if you cant take the fact your wrong on your idea, then why are you leading? If you cant take someone telling you you've messed up, then you shouldent even bother with it. its as simple as that. if you mess up, you should be called on it, no point trying to argue to someone that running the wrong direction is some how right is there? And again, we dont tend to just run in all guns blazing there is generally a plan set in motion. there for you should have enough time before the kickstart to shout out your idea's if you dont listen, dont bloody lead, your going to get people killed when you can avoid it by listening to someone elses idea. Its as simple as that. Just because ur idea seams right and you feel like someones showed you up, dosent mean there wrong and you should dis-reguard what they say. And my point to be was if someone tells you to run across the road with the possibility to get shot, and you see a better way that isnt running 200m off on your own, then you should take it and not blindly run into the firing like because your squad leader said hey i need you to go there. And my point about commanders came across wrong, i didnt mean it to sound like it did as i stated to everyone afterwards... And i find a commander who demands you follow him to his every letter is wrong, a commander dosent always see what is going on where you are and what your doing, even after you explain it you can find some commanders wont get it, so you should, do what you see fit as a squad leader to keep your team alive.. that is what i ment to get across, a commander that expects you to follow his every command is wrong. He should have the common sence to understand what is going on at the front is diferent to what he thinks most of the time... and that squads cant do exactly what he states all the time..