Another Update: So regarding the PSU I think I found a decent one for now. It's the Corsair CXM V2 750W. Yes it's semi-modular, I am still looking around for a Modular PSU, but this one is looking promising atm, unless of course you guys see an issue!
As for ram, I found another pair that wasn't on the QVL list. but tbh the QVL list is starting to look less promising in terms of price. From what I've read it is very rare for unlisted items to NOT work because they either haven't updated the list OR they can only test so many. Still, I would love to hear what you think either way: Crucial Ballistix 3600hz CL16 Heres the updated PC Part Picker List